The Antidote for Sadness

Sadness, loneliness, depression, fatigue. . .

These are adjectives I’d use to describe what happens when life losses its luster and disappointment weighs down the heart.
So what do we do? 


God’s Word gives us the answer. . . 
The antidote for sadness is not to dwell on it, rather it’s found as we take our eyes off ourselves and our circumstances, and fix them on God through praise and thanksgiving.
Psalm 43:5 from the Message translation puts it this way:
“Why are you down in the dumps, dear soul? Why are you crying the blues? Fix my eyes on God— soon I’ll be praising again. He puts a smile on my face. He’s my God.”
Dear friend, I know it’s not easy, I’ve been there. But here are some things that might help:
  • Dwell on God’s goodness, and how much He loves you. Lift your eyes to Heaven and hope in God.
  • Declare God’s promises daily. Here’s one to start : “You, Lord, are my lamp; the Lord turns my darkness into light.” 2 Samuel 22:29
  • Make a list daily of 3-5 things you’re thankful for. Post it somewhere and read it throughout the day giving God thanks for each one.
  • If you’re having trouble focusing, and reading the Bible is difficult, listen to God’s Word from the Bible App.
  • Play soothing worship music at home or in your car. Sing along 😊
  • Talk with a friend or family member, or your pastor.
  • Remind yourself that you’re just passing through a season. Tell yourself, “This too shall pass.”
  • Hug your beloved pet if you have one.
  • Seek professional counseling if needed.
  • My personal favorite: eat chocolate 😊
God always makes a way of escape!
Believe, hope, trust God. Before you know it the heaviness will lift, and you’ll be praising God with a smile 😊 
What helps you to deal with sadness? Please share, I’d love to know ❤
One last thought. It helps me to remember that sadness is not a sign of weakness. It’s just part of life. Once you’ve experienced a season of sadness, you’ll appreciate the glad times even more. I found this quote very encouraging…

tears and sadness quote

Hope be with you!
Please see Guidelines to Reblog or to Republish. Thank you.
All content © Leila Grandemange, unless otherwise noted.
Amazon’s Author Central

 

 

 

 

7 thoughts on “The Antidote for Sadness

  1. This is lovely, Leila, thank you! That quote is fantastic, I hadn’t heard it before. Gratitude is one of my big keys to help me see through the eyes of Soul, of my heart. Looking for the good and leaving the rest to God.
    So lovely to connect with you. Great post (and I love the look of your blog)
    ❤ Debbie

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thank you Debbie for your kind and encouraging comment. Yes, looking for the good and leaving the rest to God is so freeing and also allows one to forgive. I love how your blog has so much about forgiveness. We need so much more forgiveness in the world. Thank you for your blog 🙏🏻

      Liked by 1 person

      1. You got it, Leila! Have a wonderful weekend. I’ll be doing a #ForgivingFridays post tomorrow. It’s a neat creative prompt for readers to share what helps you to forgive, plus I share my own experience. 💜 Blessings to you, Debbie

        Liked by 1 person

Comments Make Me Smile!

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s